My 14 year old child has been talking to 20 year old men on line ,i need her password?

Question

HOW CAN I GO ABOUT GETTING HER PASSWORD

Answer 1

gO TO BILL GATES

Answer 2

Type up an official-looking (paper) letter from your internet provider saying they need her password. Hand it to her yourself, tell her she needs to fill out the form. Instead of mailing it, open it and look at it yourself. Chances are she uses the same one or two passwords for all email addresses and screen names.



The key loggers are also effective.

Answer 3

Either get rid of the computer or get a block put on all the chat line sites.

Answer 4

You need to put this man to jail!

But don't let her know about it. Now more than ever you need to be kind to her. She is looking for a sexual "love" out there because there's some other type of love she's not getting at home.

Answer 5

I would take all of her resources not just her password.

Answer 6

Download a keylogger. http://www.spyarsenal.com/

It should tell you how to work these, keyloggers will allow you to get her password with her knowing.

Answer 7

Monitoring Software

http://www.monitoringsoftwarereviews.org/

http://www.pcmag.com/category2/0,1874,1639158,00.asp

http://familyinternet.about.com/library/weekly/aa041901a.htm

http://monitoring-software-review.toptenreviews.com/

http://ask-leo.com/parental_monitoring_software_my_child_figured_out_how_to_turn_it_off_what_can_i_do.html

http://ezinearticles.com/?Monitoring-Software---What-You-Need-To-Know&id=454291

http://www.freesearching.com/monitor.htm

http://dmoz.org/Computers/Internet/Child_Safety/



How To Record All Microsoft Messenger conversations (free)

http://www.protectiveparenting.com/web/html/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=12



How can I keep my kids safe from internet garbage

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Restricting access to your computer:



Most computers allow creating a BIOS password. Without a password your DVD/CD or floppy drives can not be used to boot the computer or reinstall Windows, bypassing all your Windows passwords. It also prevents the hard drives from being used, preventing entering Windows “safe mode” which can be used to modify your passwords.

The bios password can often be easily defeated.

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Windows XP passwords:

All accounts must have passwords. Each person must have a separate username and password to sign on the computer. You must have an “Administrative” account. Everyone else should have “Restricted Access” accounts.

Do not enable automatic logon.

http://www.microsoft.com/windowsxp/using/setup/winxp/accounts.mspx

http://www.microsoft.com/windowsxp/using/setup/winxp/switchusers.mspx



Turn off the guest account

http://www.microsoft.com/windowsxp/using/setup/tips/soleuser.mspx



Protect your computer from access when you are temporarily away from your computer by using a screen saver password

http://www.microsoft.com/resources/documentation/windows/xp/all/proddocs/en-us/display_assign_screensaver_password.mspx?mfr=true



Each person (if you allow) should have a separate email account.



A determined person can break or disable or get around all passwords.

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Restricting Internet Access



Your internet service provider probably provides a method to control access to the internet. I have ATT they have parental controls to limit access. Each user can have a separate account. A master password is required to change settings. Settings allow selecting for each user: Allowed times during the day; maximum hours of use; set ratings for types of content allowed to be viewed.

http://help.yahoo.com/sbc/tutorials/olp/tut_olp_index.html

http://help.yahoo.com/sbc/tutorials/ypc/pc_timer1.html



I am not recommending this software, but it pages clearly show setting up internet profiles and customizing the restrictions.

http://www.pchomesoft.com/keywords.html

http://www.pchomesoft.com/limit_kids_control_guide.html

http://www.pchomesoft.com/images/kta2.gif

http://www.pchomesoft.com/images/kta1.gif



Software downloads. Some free, some offer a limited trial.

http://www.download.com/3120-20_4-0.html?tg=dl-20&qt=parental&tag=srch



Reviews of programs that restrict net access:

http://www.pcmag.com/article2/0,1895,1986753,00.asp

http://www.consumerreports.org/cro/electronics-computers/internet-filtering-software-605/ratings/index.htm?resultPageIndex=1&resultIndex=3&searchTerm=parental%20controls

http://www.filterreview.com/pages/table1.htm

http://www.geek.com/news/geeknews/2001feb/gee20010215004355.htm

http://internet-filter-review.toptenreviews.com/



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Monitoring Software

http://www.monitoringsoftwarereviews.org/

http://www.pcmag.com/category2/0,1874,1639158,00.asp

http://familyinternet.about.com/library/weekly/aa041901a.htm

http://monitoring-software-review.toptenreviews.com/

http://ask-leo.com/parental_monitoring_software_my_child_figured_out_how_to_turn_it_off_what_can_i_do.html

http://ezinearticles.com/?Monitoring-Software---What-You-Need-To-Know&id=454291

http://www.freesearching.com/monitor.htm

http://dmoz.org/Computers/Internet/Child_Safety/



How To Record All Microsoft Messenger conversations (free)

http://www.protectiveparenting.com/web/html/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=12



How can I keep my kids safe from internet garbage

http://ask-leo.com/how_can_i_keep_my_kids_safe_from_internet_garbage.html



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There are often ways to get around content restrictions and defeat filtering programs. Numerous web pages and chat rooms give tips on this subject. Kids have all the time in the world to experiment, you don’t.

http://duggmirror.com/security/A_Top_10_guide_to_accessing_blocked_websites_from_work/

http://cexx.org/censware.htm

http://www.totse.com/en/hack/understanding_the_internet/howtobypasscen170386.html

Answer 8

The only way is to ask her.

Answer 9

The only way is to talk to her about that.

You can't find it, No way!

Answer 10

Ask her for it. If she doesn't give it to you, she can't use the computer.

Answer 11

your child is not the first one i know that for sure. go to MYSPACE.COM and you will see what i mean.

Answer 12

By asking her.

Answer 13

sometimes its saved, if its her computer then most likely it is

Answer 14

You need her COMPUTER!!!....AND SOON!!!!