I keep getting warning bars that sites are trying to install ActiveX to me. Then I get pop-ups (that keep coming back & back), to install Adobe Flash Player. It comes with a security warning from AOL. I keep clicking "no", and it keeps coming back. PLEASE...someone help -- is this a virus, or malware? I'm so confused and scared, I'm crying. Now I'm afraid to go to different sites. Can someone who knows about this help me, please? Thank you!